I am often asked about the characteristics of successful people - the qualities, traits and habits that make them successful. Those who ask wonder if there are indeed common habits or traits that can be linked to success, and whether they themselves could achieve some level of success by applying those qualities to their own lives.
The answer to both questions is YES!
The list below is not all-inclusive, but I believe these ten qualities are some of the more important ones.
Dreams. Successful people are dreamers, and they dream big dreams. Their success starts with a vision that is too exciting to remain just a dream. Successful people must see their dream materialize, and they do whatever it takes to make that happen.
Goals. Nothing happens until a goal is established. Without goals, people wander around aimlessly, wondering why they have not accomplished what they set out to do. Goals have been called "dreams with deadlines," and having them helps successful people to stay on course while making their dreams a reality.
Enthusiasm. Successful people are extremely enthusiastic about what they do. In fact, this passion is what drives them. Not only will passion drive you, but your enthusiasm attracts others to you.
“Enthusiasm can help you find the new doors, but it takes passion to open them. If you have a strong purpose in life, you don't have to be pushed. Your passion will drive you there.” (Roy T. Bennett)
Purpose. Successful people know what they want and have a burning desire to possess it. They are laser-focused on the achievement of their goals.
Decisions. In order to be successful, you must decide to do so. Almost all confusion is the result of indecision from not deciding on a course of action. Successful people decide, recognizing that even to make a wrong decision is better than to make no decision at all. They adjust, then stay the course.
Actions. How many great ideas have you had, but not acted upon? Then, two months later, you discover that someone else has "taken" your idea. It is better to act on a mediocre idea than to not act on a great one. Successful people know this, and take action.
Persistence. Everyone meets with adversity, hardship, and opposition. Successful people use these setbacks as stepping stones, rather than stumbling blocks, to propel them forward. Recognize that defeat is temporary and that persistence will overcome adversity.
“Success is to be measured not so much by the position that one has reached in life as by the obstacles which he has overcome.”(Booker T. Washington)
Community. Successful people surround themselves with other successful people. Other "winners" can serve as a support group or an idea group. They can challenge your thoughts, encourage you, and provide useful feedback. And you can do the same for them. In addition to friends and colleagues, you can also utilize experts in your field by attending seminars, reading books, and listening to podcasts.
Belief. Those who are successful expect success and believe that they will succeed. This confident faith in their abilities, and in their ideas, removes the limitations created by doubt and fear. When you believe, your mind will help you find ways to accomplish your goal.
Integrity. Many would argue that people can be, and have been, successful despite their lack of moral character. My response is that, while they may be successful in a particular area of their life, they are not "successful people." Sooner or later, the person who lacks integrity will suffer for it. True success, in my opinion, cannot be achieved without it.
“Integrity is important in building relationships. And is the foundation upon which many other qualities for success are built, such as respect, dignity, and trust.” (John C. Maxwell)
Remember some people will dream of success while others wake up and work hard at it. Go ahead and dream, then make it happen! You deserve it!
XOXO!
Belinda